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Abi Dare of These Four Walls blog - About me

Hi, and thanks for dropping by!

I’m Abi Dare, a blogger, photographer, stylist, writer, minimalist and scented-candle addict… I live in the beautiful city of Bristol (UK) with my husband Chris and Loki, our Siamese-cross rescue cat, and I set up These Four Walls in 2014 to share inspiration for simple, relaxed living at home and beyond.

I’ve been passionate about interiors for as long as I can remember, and my parents often used to come home from work when I was a teenager to discover I’d rearranged all the furniture while they were out! I’ve also always had a love of travel – particularly Scandinavia, which I first visited on a school exchange at the age of 14; Spain, France, Italy and Portugal, where I’ve spent a lot of time over the years (including stints living in Paris and Barcelona as a student); and Canada, where my dad’s family comes from.

This blog is where my various interests come together, and you’ll find everything from home tours and design advice to tips and inspiration from my travels. Underpinning everything are my beliefs that good design is as much about wellbeing and mood as aesthetics, and that we should all take time to savour those little moments of simplicity and serenity that make daily life more enjoyable. I’m also a strong advocate of slow, considered design, and looking beyond trends to create a timeless home that works for you, your lifestyle and the planet.

I’d describe my own style as ‘soft minimalism’ – pared-back and clutter-free, but at the same time warm and inviting. I also have a penchant for calming, muted colours (partly because I have a condition called synaesthesia, which you can read about here), and I’m always drawn towards understated, Scandinavian-inspired design. I’ve even written a book about it, The Soft Minimalist Home – calm, cozy decor for real lives and spaces, which you can order here.

Please take a look around, and do get in touch on [email protected] if you have any feedback or suggestions. You can also subscribe to my monthly newsletter for more design, travel and lifestyle inspiration delivered straight to your inbox.

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Abi Dare | These Four Walls blog

I’m Abi Dare – a stylist, photographer and writer based in Bristol (UK). I set up this blog to share interior design, travel and lifestyle inspiration for simple, relaxed living at home and beyond. You’ll find home tours, advice and tips, interviews, reviews, postcards from places I love and more – always with a focus on soft minimalism, muted colours and timeless, considered design.

‘Top 10 UK interior design blogs’ 2025, 2024, 2023 & 2022, Vuelio

‘Best Interior Design Blog’, uFurnish Home Awards 2024

Winner of the ‘Blogger’ category in the Sweetpea & Willow Home Influencer Awards 2023

‘Best Design & Architecture Blog’, UK Blog Awards 2019

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A few snaps from the gorgeous @gubiofficial showro A few snaps from the gorgeous @gubiofficial showroom in London, which I visited during @clerkenwelldesignweek earlier this week. I missed the opening event for this last year, so it was great to finally have a look around in person. The light is stunning, as is GUBI's selection of contemporary and classic designs - including the sculptural and futuristic F300 lounge  chair, first designed by Pierre Paulin in the 1960s and recently relaunched. 

Which room or corner is your favourite...?

#minimalistinterior #danishdesign #scandiinterior #scandiinspo #nordicminimalism #scandinaviandecor #softminimalism #interiorsinspo #interiorsinspiration
Eight years ago today. Carousel posts didn't exist Eight years ago today. Carousel posts didn't exist then so I'm using our anniversary as an excuse to share some of my favourite wedding photos.

I have so many happy memories from the day, but what I remember the most is all the laughter. And the funniest best men's (Chris had four!) speech I've ever heard. I wish we'd had a videographer just to capture that.

Anyway, thanks @small_round_things for the last eight years - and for the 13 before we actually got around to tying the knot!

Venue: @pyneshouse 
Photography: @taylorandporter
Back on the grid after more than two weeks. Thanks Back on the grid after more than two weeks. Thanks to everyone who sent messages checking I was OK - I just lost my Instagram mojo and needed a bit of a break. Anyway, here are some phone-camera snippets of life lately...

1.  Guard cat on duty while I work
2.  Evening light hitting the last of the Japanese quince blossom in the garden 
3.  Country drives
4.  Coming across 17th-century graffiti while house-hunting
5 & 6.  A lazy Sunday stroll on Clevedon Pier, on one of those hazy days where the sea and sky seem to merge into one
7.  Keeping drooping spring blooms going for as long as possible 
8 & 9.  Wisteria at @ntbarringtoncourt in Somerset 
10.  Brunch at the always-wonderful @lunitapasteleria 
11.  Enjoying the balmy spring breeze 
12.  Stunning mosaic floors at Chedworth Roman Villa in Gloucestershire 
13.  Bluebell season
14.  My kind of wine
15.  Wild garlic 

#springhassprung #slowsimpleseasonal #cornersofmyworld #lifelately #blossomseverywhere #thisprettyengland #thelocalwayfarer #westcountry #littlestoriesofmylife #poetryofsimplethings #seeingthepretty #tinytinymoments
[AD - PR product] I've always loved marble as a ma [AD - PR product] I've always loved marble as a material, and the beige Kunis Breccia version of the @newworksdk 'Kizu' table lamp caught my eye immediately. I now have this design in three different colourways around the house, and this is definitely my favourite to date! 

#softminimalisthome #softminimalstyle #neutralhomedecor #simplehomestyle #minimalistdecor #simpleinterior #mycosyhome #neutrallivingroom #minimalistlighting #scandiinterior

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